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Hi, Assalamualaikum!

There's a thing I want to share today.

Well, I'm telling my self to keep sharing and telling, I hope I could do that... xoxo

for us, ladies...

we all know that we have our guest every month and it happens in different way in every girl. I mean, some of us may feel so bad because when your stomach hurts because of that period, it's really bad and it hurts. And fortunately some of us may don't feel anything and it's okhay.
don't be sad just because it hurts or don't be sad because you don't feel anything.
Woman are amazing with their own way.
If you feel hurt or you don't feel hurt, both are the conditions that we should be grateful for.  

For us, as a moslem lady. We know that we can't do what we usually do in daily. When we are in our period time, we can't perform prayers, recite the Qur'an and stay in the mosque.


I know, I feel you girls, in some conditions we are all happy when it comes because there's time you don't have to find Musholla when you're doing activities outside maybe. haha, I know 😛
But, Have you ever felt like "it is sad, how I perform prayers and I poured out to Allah in very intimate way and I skip that for several days" ?
That thought and feeling hit me...

Till onced I watched the videos of *klik if you wanna watch* Ust. Abdul Somad & Ust. Adi Hidayat, I typed on youtube "the best convention when the period time"

We all may know that when it's period time, you can do Dzikr, Shalawat, as many as you can.

once Ust.Adi explained us one hadith and it touched me,
you know...
When a girl is in period time, Allah will give reward for what she actually does in her daily. Allah will give reward for her habit.
Masya Allah💕
 
Here means, if in daily you perfom the fardh & the sunnah prayers and recite al-Qur'an then when you're in your period time you're still getting that reward for what you actualy do. Here means, when a girl do the good things in her daily basis, she still get that reward when she's in her period time.

Look, Allah is ar-rahman ar-rahim, His blessing is countless.
Even in our soiled time. He bless us in many ways.

and I remember what Ust.Adi told "So, it's poor if a girl just does what mandatory for her out her period time and doesn't perform the sunnah. Then what's written for her when she's in her period time is only the fardh."

 
 May this could be reminder for all us especially note to my self. May we can learn and improve our self everyday and Allah will always guide us to the right path.

Barakallah.

Love,
DesyUlfaY

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Assalamualaikum 💕

how's  life? I hope all of you in a good condition. Aamin.

It's January 22nd 2019 and it means that today is the exact time that I've been living here in Jakarta for 3 months. Living in the capital city and far from home, Aceh.

I survived...

I know it sound cheesy for the word survive... but, let my own self intrepret it. hehehe

I still remember that time when the decision was made. I still remember those stories till I had to be ready. It was the condition I need to face, ready or not ready I should be ready.

Days before October 22nd 2018,

There were conditions which made me confuse whether I should take this opportunity or not. there were days my head was so crowded. there's a lot considerations, I gave so many thought on this one. I kept asking whether I should take or leave it. I asked my family and some of friends advice as well;

there were them who asked me to take it,
"ambil aja lah, ini kesempatan bagus" "ga semua orang bisa dapat, ambil aja" "lagian ke juga bisa melakukan persiapan-persiapan lainnya disana" "aku bangga dan senang kali dengarnya. udah sejauh ini des, tes nya juga ga mudah. ambil aja"
 "take it, this is a chance, not everyone can get it, take it, you can do the other preparations as well there, tho" "I'm proud and really happy, you've came so far, take it"
but there's also voice,
 "balik lagi ke diri ke, gimana maunya" 
"give it back to yourself"
 and my family as well, they gave it to my self. They also reminded me to perform istikharah prayer again.

I was that crowded, I knew this a chance, I mean... I don't know how to say...

well,
There's only a lil story, there's a lot of the stories behind.

long story short, I kept saying
"ya Allah if this is good for me, if this one makes me closer to You, to what will I get. Then ease the way"

there were conditions I had a thought "why this is happen in the time I'm sure to take this one"
till I was surrender and let Allah showed the way. I kept thinking that
"If to go to Jakarta is my way, then whatever the situation and conditions happen, if Allah says I go then I'll go".... 

and one of my supervisor, he was one of the people that Allah let involved and took big part of this stories. Thankyou, Mr.S.

Next,
days before I flew to Jkt, my nanny was hospitalized, and my mom & the secret one were not in a good conditions...
can you feel me...

It was hard, but again and again, those loved ones kept encouraging and telling me that all is well insyaAllah. I'm grateful.

Till it happened...

The decision was made, the ticket was booked, the bag and stuff were packed.

well, okay then... so,
This the step that Allah wants me to take, Allah is the greatest. He always gives the best for His slaves. I Put trust on Him, always.

I had to be ready.

Facing the new things for good.

Sultan Iskandar Muda International Airport, Aceh.
From my seat.
Mon, Oct 22nd 2018.
09:25, I took off to Jakarta.
This was my first time wandering for a long stay
My feeling were mixed
Bismillah..

here's note I wrote for Aceh while I was on flight
Oct 22nd 2018.
10:12
Take my heart with you, and
please look after people I love
with all your goodness,
I'll miss you.
beyond than that, your people.

here I am...
Taking step away to go home
the farther I go, the stronger I hold
So, see you when I see you 💕

Last but not least,

you know, I think it's a human thing that sometimes we think this and that we feel this and that.
But, we have to keep remember that Allah is always with us, He knows what we don't know.
Keep doing, praying, and let everything happens in the most beautiful way because Allah is the greatest planner.

Allah is as-samii', He listens to every word string.


Kelapa Gading, Jakarta Utara.
January 22nd 2019,
DesyUlfaY.

Barakallah






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Hi, it’s me again! 😊

How are you? How’s life doing? 
I hope it’s good. 

Been a long time since the last time I posted. I miss this one. Xoxo

There’s a lot you’ve missed. 
Ohh, I even staying at new place now.

It’s 2019 already. Time flies, indeed. 

Here I am. Come back to this cutiepie. Haha

2019.
As many things ahead, I hope this will be one of the good things. 
This should be a productive starter, wish.
Can’t wait to kindly share and tell. 

Xoxo. 

Wish you all the best. 


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I just watched so many videos cover on youtube...
just, so many.... hahaha

and am inspired to write about this.
 so yeah, honestlt...
I was a fangirl. hahahah

seems so alay. yeah It was.
I was a fangirl of Justin Bieber. you know who is he? yeah I know you knew. if you don't know? oh man, where have you been? where are you know? where are you know when I need youuuuu. ops.
hahaha

back to the topic.

 I was a belieber...

I knew Justin Bieber when I was in Junior High school. I forgot exactly when it was. what I know is I was so norak and alay and I don't know how to describe it. wkwk
If you knew.... a junior high school student spent lots of money just to buy unimportant thing... like, for sure it was not important at all.

you know, I collected all the things about Justin Bieber and I know everything about him. I evem know in what hospita he was born (like what??????????) yeah. I was that alay. and what else? you know, I spent my money just to buy things like him. like i bought a sneaker and watch same like him. oh, I remember! I even hated Selena Gomez just because she was Justin Bieber's girlfriend. Hahahahhahahahahha pardon me, selenator. Selenator is Selena's fans. wkwk

and I remember. I took course, and after finished the course me and my friends who beliebers as well (wkwk) always go to bookstore just to check magazine whether there was Jebe or not. I remember it was in TB. Mara. hahah

even it was a long time ago. now on, I still like to listen to Jebe's song. but now in a different way. I just like his music. He is a good singer, tho.

but hey. I don't regret my time as a fangirl. why? it because I loved Jebe I've learned English. I listen to his song. I watched his videos, I read English article about him in English. and many things.
so, sometimes I need to thanks that alay process. hahah

cheers!

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There is gold behind that silence.
Ohhh I don't know why I wrote that sentence. Yup, maybe it inspires by the saying "silence is gold" yes is it. 
Here, I want to write something based on that gold side. 
What do I mean by that sentence?

Have you ever seen a person who is really silent, like he/she is so quiet. He/she keeps on his/her silence. Do we know exactly what is in his/her mind? No, we don't?
What will we guest? 
He/she is an introvert person?
He/she knows nothing?
He/she knows everything?
He/she is so cool? 
I usually listen a teacher in a class if the class being so quiet, "I don't why do you guys keep silent. I don't know whether you keep silent because of you understand or you don't understand" hahahah. Right? But, In this case... no Ms, we keep silent because we are waiting for break time. HAHAHAH.

Back to the topic!

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Shaolan is the girl who was growing up in taiwan by her parent who are a calligrapher. She said that one of the most treasured memories of her life was her mother showing her the beauty, the shape and the form of chinese characters. Since then, she was fascinated by this incredible language. Since she was five, she started to learn drawing every single stroke for each character in the correct sequence. She learned new charactes every day during the course of the next 15 years.

A Chinese scholar would understand 20,000 characters. You only need 1,000 to understand the basic literacy. The top 200 will allow you to comprehend 40 percent of basic literature -- enough to read road signs, restaurant menus, to understand the basic idea of the web pages or the newspapers. Telling that chinese’s language has a lot of characters to remember.


She was going to tell and teach the audience how to make it simpler and easier to understand, exactly by doing several things that involved our kinds of daily life experince. Then, she started to model how she used her brain to remember the very simple 8 characters that will help you to remember and understand the basic chinese. After explaining all of the mothods, she stopped the presentation with a very cool slide in chinese which is telling about the word that reminds the audience and her that she should stop talking and getting out of the stage “exit”.
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WHAT A GOOD TALK!

that's the first impression I have on me when I finished watching this short ted talk's video.

Jamil Lyiscott is an articulate. yup, the one who able to express idea clearly and effectively in speech or writing. the definition from meriam-webster.

I believe that all of you think that this video is going to show us the way to learn speak english like many people did. just like me, same! i thought the  same way. I think she's going to tell there were threre ways to speak english and she's going to tell step by step. but i'm totally wrong! pardon me, haha.

but hey, maybe we don't realize that we speak english in very comman way. while there are many ways to tell something.

It is called linguistic celebration. for example three ways of saying hello:
what's good
what's up
and
hello.

Jamila said that she is articulate and she thought about who control the articulating.
because the english language is multifaceted oration, subject to indefinite transformation.

we think it's ignorant to speak broken english, and hey Jamila said that even articulate americans sound foolish to british.

but here I want to tell you, we can speak in many ways and lets celebrate the linguistic!

cheers.
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